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THE TIME FOR TEXTING: THE FIVE TIMES YOU SHOULDN’T TEXT YOUR GUY

As we face the modern times, casual electronic notes have become a huge part of dating. There are even statistics showing that texting have surpassed actual phone calls between many couples. That is why it's not that surprising when you find yourself itching to text your man, especially when in the throes of new love.

BEWARE though: Overdoing texting can freak guys out. The very reason for this is because they feel pressured into sending these instantaneous responses. Therefore, the trick here, ladies, is to have the perfect timing. As the following are the several instances where texting can torpedo a relationship before it had even took its flight:

• AFTER YOUR FIRST DATES.
Sure, I hear you. It is so tempting to contact a guy after an amazing date, however, resist the urge. Reaching out lessens the thrill of chase for him.

• WHEN YOU ARE ANGRY.
Sending texts such as "Why haven't you called me?!!!!!" inquiry makes you look very insecure. Avoid angry texts once your in relationship too. Remember, when it is in writing, its hard to make it undone. Also, ban those bitchy, sarcastic humors.

• WHEN YOU ARE DRUNK.
Even the latest technology of cell phones doesn't come with a warning sign. So, it is up to you to stop yourself from sending a tipsy message - especially the ones that suggests you too meet up, ASAP. Being too available lets a man know that he has the upper hand.

• WHEN YOU ARE TRYING TO BE FUNNY.
You have to know that there is a difference in verbal and nonverbal communication. When relayed nonverbally, joking, and sarcasm can come off as being very aggressive. Guys may misinterpret on what you want to convey. You may want to sound funny and endearing but to him, you could sound pissed off.

There you go. Keep in mind that you should be the boss of technology, not the other way around.
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