What happened? You and your wife used to be so into each other.
There used to be such a connection and now you can barely stand each other.
Don't you miss how it used to be? It's hard to grasp the idea that such a loving and amazing relationship is not gone and over.
There IS something you can do to get her back and to love you again, you just need to start thinking the right way.
Follow these basic steps and guidelines and you can begin the process of getting her to love you again, like she used to.
Remember how your relationship used to be.
Remember the little things that you laughed about and the tiny details that made her love you.
The best way to begin getting her back is to remind her of these details.
She was crazy about you and you know that.
Also, chances are that, if she is reminded of the way things used to be and you can show her that they can be that way again, then she will want to come back to you.
It's these little things that make the biggest difference in a relationship.
She notices everything and if you do the same like saying, "your hair looks good like that" or "wow, you look so good," she will see that you are noticing small details, and her perception of you can change.
Don't think about getting her back right off the bat, though.
You must be patient because the process of starting the relationship again is starting all over, she needs to be wooed again! So act like it's your first date, be silly and fun and spontaneous and not serious about anything, just show her a good time out.
If she wants to do something, do your best to make it happen.
She'll remember eventually how awesome and fun you can be.
Finally, you should try your best to be yourself.
Don't try so hard to impress her, because she fell in love with you for who you are, not something else.
She used to love you a lot, so be that same person that she used to love and she will feel those feelings for you again.