There is a seduction technique you can use on first dates such as coffee dates that is very effective. It's called a Seductive Hypnotic Description or an 'SHD'. It works well because it bypasses a woman's conscious filters and causes her to experience the feelings necessary for her to feel a connection that is based on sexual tension.
Seductive Hypnotic Descriptions work by incorporating certain words within the context of a story or description. These normal words have the possibility to be subliminally misinterpreted by the woman's subconscious mind. Normal words like 'wet' and 'hard' or 'smooth' and 'sensitive' all have connotations of sexuality attached to them. If you incorporate these words within a story you tell whilst speaking in a smooth seductive tone and rhythm, magic can happen.
The trick is to get a woman to ask you a question so you can answer her question with a SDH. The easiest way to do this is to simply ask her the question you want her to ask you. If you ask a woman what her favorite flavor of ice-cream is, 99% of the time after she tells you she'll ask you the same question back. If you want a woman to ask you a particular question, just ask her first.
You need to have the woman ask you a question that lends itself to the use of a Seductive Hypnotic Description. If she were to ask you a question such as, "can you describe your first kiss for me...?"...this would be the perfect opportunity for you to use a SHD. The best way to get her to do this is to ask her first. Just ask her a few lead up questions like which school did she go to and can she remember her first boy she had a crush on. From there it's simple to ask her, "...so do you still remember your first kiss...?"
Even the question itself provokes her to emotionally experience the feelings she felt whilst engaging in her first kiss. If she does describe her first kiss for you she'll definitely be experiencing those feelings around you as she describes it to you. When she experiences these feelings around you, it will cause her to become attracted to you. If she doesn't want to tell you about it she'll most probably ask you if you remember your first kiss.
This will be your opportunity to use an SHD. A typical SHD sounds like this, "...I definitely remember my first kiss...it was actually in the rain...we took shelter under this big tree and because everywhere was so wet it made it hard to stay dry so we leant up against the tree...we'd only come there to kiss,...so we both knew it was going to happen...I didn't expect her lips to be so soft...and I had to kiss her so gently....as we kissed big droplets of water fell onto our faces from the wet leaves above....the kiss warmed up my entire body and I felt warm even though I was wet...we ran back to where we were supposed to be and it felt like we both had a little secret to keep..."
Now a lot of words in the above description can be associated with sexuality however they are not being used in that context. What gives a SHD its influence is the social innuendo that is attached to those words. When using words like these the sentences can become slightly confusing and this is what allows those suggestive words to bypass her conscious filters.
By using a soft seductive tone of voice and maintaining a smooth speaking rhythm the effectiveness of an SHD can be increased. This cannot be obvious whatsoever and has to be done very delicately for it to work. It is enough to simply add a slightly longer pause in between your sentences whilst performing a SHD.
To get the most out of SHD's, only use them in very small doses. Never make a SHD any longer than the example above. On a first date such as a coffee date, you wouldn't use anymore than two SHD's in the 40 minutes you spend with her. Becoming proficient in SHD's will require you to practice answering your own questions using SHD's. Once you can naturally and easily repeat an effective SHD, simply ask women the question you require them to ask you in order for you to try a SHD.
To become an expert with women on the first date read Coffee Date Secrets. For free high quality information on seduction and succeeding with women visit Master Seductor.com [http://blog.masterseductor.com].
Seductive Hypnotic Descriptions work by incorporating certain words within the context of a story or description. These normal words have the possibility to be subliminally misinterpreted by the woman's subconscious mind. Normal words like 'wet' and 'hard' or 'smooth' and 'sensitive' all have connotations of sexuality attached to them. If you incorporate these words within a story you tell whilst speaking in a smooth seductive tone and rhythm, magic can happen.
The trick is to get a woman to ask you a question so you can answer her question with a SDH. The easiest way to do this is to simply ask her the question you want her to ask you. If you ask a woman what her favorite flavor of ice-cream is, 99% of the time after she tells you she'll ask you the same question back. If you want a woman to ask you a particular question, just ask her first.
You need to have the woman ask you a question that lends itself to the use of a Seductive Hypnotic Description. If she were to ask you a question such as, "can you describe your first kiss for me...?"...this would be the perfect opportunity for you to use a SHD. The best way to get her to do this is to ask her first. Just ask her a few lead up questions like which school did she go to and can she remember her first boy she had a crush on. From there it's simple to ask her, "...so do you still remember your first kiss...?"
Even the question itself provokes her to emotionally experience the feelings she felt whilst engaging in her first kiss. If she does describe her first kiss for you she'll definitely be experiencing those feelings around you as she describes it to you. When she experiences these feelings around you, it will cause her to become attracted to you. If she doesn't want to tell you about it she'll most probably ask you if you remember your first kiss.
This will be your opportunity to use an SHD. A typical SHD sounds like this, "...I definitely remember my first kiss...it was actually in the rain...we took shelter under this big tree and because everywhere was so wet it made it hard to stay dry so we leant up against the tree...we'd only come there to kiss,...so we both knew it was going to happen...I didn't expect her lips to be so soft...and I had to kiss her so gently....as we kissed big droplets of water fell onto our faces from the wet leaves above....the kiss warmed up my entire body and I felt warm even though I was wet...we ran back to where we were supposed to be and it felt like we both had a little secret to keep..."
Now a lot of words in the above description can be associated with sexuality however they are not being used in that context. What gives a SHD its influence is the social innuendo that is attached to those words. When using words like these the sentences can become slightly confusing and this is what allows those suggestive words to bypass her conscious filters.
By using a soft seductive tone of voice and maintaining a smooth speaking rhythm the effectiveness of an SHD can be increased. This cannot be obvious whatsoever and has to be done very delicately for it to work. It is enough to simply add a slightly longer pause in between your sentences whilst performing a SHD.
To get the most out of SHD's, only use them in very small doses. Never make a SHD any longer than the example above. On a first date such as a coffee date, you wouldn't use anymore than two SHD's in the 40 minutes you spend with her. Becoming proficient in SHD's will require you to practice answering your own questions using SHD's. Once you can naturally and easily repeat an effective SHD, simply ask women the question you require them to ask you in order for you to try a SHD.
To become an expert with women on the first date read Coffee Date Secrets. For free high quality information on seduction and succeeding with women visit Master Seductor.com [http://blog.masterseductor.com].
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