If you want to win back your ex boyfriend, try dating someone else.
Does that sound right to you? If not, don't worry, you're not the only one who thinks this is counter intuitive.
However, what if you knew that dating someone else would get you back into your boyfriend's arms? Would you do it then? Let me justify myself! The way I see it, when you just got dumped by someone you still love, your first instinct is to run after him and beg him to take you back.
You panic that if you don't pester him constantly about letting you back into his life, he will find someone new and forget all about you.
Right? Please know that just because your boyfriend broke up with you, he most likely still has strong feelings for you.
Even if he is already dating someone else, that doesn't mean that all hope is gone for you two to reconcile.
So there is no need for you to panic just yet! If you really want to win back your boyfriend, the most important thing you can do at this point is to take time for yourself.
Whatever you do, don't call, text or Facebook your ex.
Even though it may be difficult, you need to let him go about his new life without you and you need to do the same.
Once it clicks in that you shouldn't be contacting your ex at this point, you need to go out and have a good time.
I'm serious! Put on your prettiest clothes, get a hold of your friends and go out on the town.
This will keep your mind off your, ex, boost your confidence and give your ex time to start missing you.
If per chance you encounter someone you wouldn't mind dating, don't let your ex boyfriend stop you! You are no longer in a current relationship with your ex.
You are a free agent so if you want to have fun, please go ahead.
No need for guilt trips, dating is perfectly acceptable when you are broken up.
Of course, if you do go out with someone else, make sure to tell them that you are not looking for a serious relationship at this point and tell them that you are just looking for a good time.
Also, keep in mind that this is not to make your ex jealous.
That is not the point of this strategy.
Does that sound right to you? If not, don't worry, you're not the only one who thinks this is counter intuitive.
However, what if you knew that dating someone else would get you back into your boyfriend's arms? Would you do it then? Let me justify myself! The way I see it, when you just got dumped by someone you still love, your first instinct is to run after him and beg him to take you back.
You panic that if you don't pester him constantly about letting you back into his life, he will find someone new and forget all about you.
Right? Please know that just because your boyfriend broke up with you, he most likely still has strong feelings for you.
Even if he is already dating someone else, that doesn't mean that all hope is gone for you two to reconcile.
So there is no need for you to panic just yet! If you really want to win back your boyfriend, the most important thing you can do at this point is to take time for yourself.
Whatever you do, don't call, text or Facebook your ex.
Even though it may be difficult, you need to let him go about his new life without you and you need to do the same.
Once it clicks in that you shouldn't be contacting your ex at this point, you need to go out and have a good time.
I'm serious! Put on your prettiest clothes, get a hold of your friends and go out on the town.
This will keep your mind off your, ex, boost your confidence and give your ex time to start missing you.
If per chance you encounter someone you wouldn't mind dating, don't let your ex boyfriend stop you! You are no longer in a current relationship with your ex.
You are a free agent so if you want to have fun, please go ahead.
No need for guilt trips, dating is perfectly acceptable when you are broken up.
Of course, if you do go out with someone else, make sure to tell them that you are not looking for a serious relationship at this point and tell them that you are just looking for a good time.
Also, keep in mind that this is not to make your ex jealous.
That is not the point of this strategy.
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