Are you a chubby girl looking for a hot guy? Do you wonder if you will ever find an attractive man that will love and accept you for what is on the inside? Do you find that you always blame relationship failures on your weight? Many women struggle with their weight and it often destroys their confidence.
But take heart, because it is definitely possible for a girl on the chubby side to attract and keep a hot guy.
First of all, give men a little credit.
Sure, there are definitely shallow men (and women) in the world who are concerned only with physical appearance.
But in spite of what you see on television and in magazines, remember that most people fall into the average category and are neither exceptionally gorgeous nor hideously ugly.
A man can definitely be attracted to you even with a few extra pounds because he knows he has a flaw or two as well.
You can either focus on your flaws or focus on your assets.
One will cause you to feel self-conscious and insecure.
The other will make you feel sexy and confident.
If your weight bothers you, then by all means, make some changes in your life to become thinner.
Just make sure that you keep your expectations realistic.
Weight does not come off easily or quickly.
It requires a consistent effort over a sustained period of time to achieve true weight loss success.
Allow a man to get to know you and see all of your attractive qualities.
When you feel insecure about something it's tempting to hide behind that perceived flaw or insecurity.
You feel so insecure that you can't smile, flirt, relax or have fun.
If a man senses that you are uncomfortable with your weight or anything else then it might make him uncomfortable as well.
But if you accept the way you look today and work with the body you have, then a man will be able to so the same.
Thankfully, men have different tastes in women.
Some men like the ultra thin athletic type while other men enjoy a little softness on a woman's body.
Some men don't care either way.
They just enjoy the view of the woman that happens to be in front of them at that particular moment.
Other men notice your smile or your eyes before anything else.
It's all a matter of preference.
It also helps to remember that men have insecurities about their appearance as well.
They just don't obsess over them the way women tend to do.
They have a take it or leave it approach.
Try to develop that same attitude.
If someone doesn't like you the way you are, there are plenty of other people who will.
If you are a chubby girl trying to snag a hot guy, then just be yourself.
The man of your dreams won't be able to resist that.