In this new era women's standards for judging their partners has changed significantly.
Their independence and equality has never been greater and they are more dedicated than ever to having their own professional and personal lives.
Like all things this day and age her assessment of potential mates has become all too fast; weighing his pros and cons with little hesitation or allowance for prolonged courtship.
Picture a woman who has planned her life flawlessly; attending her ideal college, and finding her ideal career.
She enjoys her life and decides it is time to consider a serious relationship and possible marriage.
She will apply the same care in planning the romantic aspect of her life as she did in planning her professional life.
What will she desire of a partner? All of the traits she desires will be contingent on her personality, values, and past experience.
She may desire a man similar to her; one who is as driven and dedicated in his professional life.
She may also desire someone similar to her father, who will create a home with her that mirrors the one she grew up in.
Or she could desire a total opposite, a challenge, someone who has a completely different world view with whom she can share different and new experiences.
All things considered, her options are as varied as the potential personalities she could have.
Finding someone similar to her would mean a man that has worked hard academically and professionally to attain the same level of success.
Someone who does not give up and who attains the goals he has set for himself.
She would be attracted to a self-confident man who knows who he is.
If she is searching for someone she can recreate her parents relationship with there are different qualities to look for there as well.
Perhaps her childhood home was presided over by parents completely committed to one another, who took most seriously their pledge of loyalty to one another and faithfulness.
Or her parents could have had vastly different personalities that never the less fit together comfortably and ended with them recounting their separate days at dinner.
She could have also potentially found her childhood home a lonely place with little affection or devotion and could still be comfortable living that way.
She would be looking for a man capable of little intimacy, someone who shares her life only as much as he shares her space in the home.
A woman looking for new thrills and excitement will desire someone capable of stimulating her thoughts and actions.
A woman like this might like a man that is eccentric, jumps from project to project, and who creates a little mystery as to who he truly is; a man like that would be very creative, someone who throws caution to the wind.
The type of man a certain woman wants may never be discernible for she might not know herself.
Women are as unique and varied as men.
She might need a man who possesses a little of all of these qualities.
She might need someone who is as hard-working as she is, but who also gets a little bit wild.
We should never forget that like men, women search for the traits they find most attractive.
They will be looking for men who they desire mentally and physically.
Women are mysterious creatures often defying explanation; and accepting that mystery as inevitable will bring you closer to what their ideals really are.
Their independence and equality has never been greater and they are more dedicated than ever to having their own professional and personal lives.
Like all things this day and age her assessment of potential mates has become all too fast; weighing his pros and cons with little hesitation or allowance for prolonged courtship.
Picture a woman who has planned her life flawlessly; attending her ideal college, and finding her ideal career.
She enjoys her life and decides it is time to consider a serious relationship and possible marriage.
She will apply the same care in planning the romantic aspect of her life as she did in planning her professional life.
What will she desire of a partner? All of the traits she desires will be contingent on her personality, values, and past experience.
She may desire a man similar to her; one who is as driven and dedicated in his professional life.
She may also desire someone similar to her father, who will create a home with her that mirrors the one she grew up in.
Or she could desire a total opposite, a challenge, someone who has a completely different world view with whom she can share different and new experiences.
All things considered, her options are as varied as the potential personalities she could have.
Finding someone similar to her would mean a man that has worked hard academically and professionally to attain the same level of success.
Someone who does not give up and who attains the goals he has set for himself.
She would be attracted to a self-confident man who knows who he is.
If she is searching for someone she can recreate her parents relationship with there are different qualities to look for there as well.
Perhaps her childhood home was presided over by parents completely committed to one another, who took most seriously their pledge of loyalty to one another and faithfulness.
Or her parents could have had vastly different personalities that never the less fit together comfortably and ended with them recounting their separate days at dinner.
She could have also potentially found her childhood home a lonely place with little affection or devotion and could still be comfortable living that way.
She would be looking for a man capable of little intimacy, someone who shares her life only as much as he shares her space in the home.
A woman looking for new thrills and excitement will desire someone capable of stimulating her thoughts and actions.
A woman like this might like a man that is eccentric, jumps from project to project, and who creates a little mystery as to who he truly is; a man like that would be very creative, someone who throws caution to the wind.
The type of man a certain woman wants may never be discernible for she might not know herself.
Women are as unique and varied as men.
She might need a man who possesses a little of all of these qualities.
She might need someone who is as hard-working as she is, but who also gets a little bit wild.
We should never forget that like men, women search for the traits they find most attractive.
They will be looking for men who they desire mentally and physically.
Women are mysterious creatures often defying explanation; and accepting that mystery as inevitable will bring you closer to what their ideals really are.
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