Making a move into permanent care, even if it is into one of the Hilton head independent living residences, can be a difficult time for all involved. This is a time of great change for the individual who is moving, but it is also a time of great change for the individuals or individual who had been caring for them at home. Sometimes it proves very emotional for these caregivers to accept the new change. If you have been caring for a loved one who is now making a move into permanent care or Hilton Head memory care, then there are some steps you can take to make this a less difficult time.

Remember the Priority

The priority when dealing with a loved one in need of care should always be what is best for them. You would not have been providing care for your loved one if you were not concerned about what is best for them. If your loved one now needs permanent care or memory care, then you must remember that their needs have now extended beyond what you can provide. There is no shame in this. You are one person with limited resources and skills. One of the Hilton Head independent living residences have an entire facility and staff available to assist with your loved one's individual challenges. You want your loved one cared for in the best way possible. Over time the definition of that changes, and you must change along with it.

Keep Some Things the Same

Just because some things are changing does not mean that everything about your relationship with your loved one must change. It will still be very important that you remain an important and available part of your loved one's life even though they are now in a new living environment or Hilton Head memory care. In fact it is probably even more important now than ever. As the care giver you probably spend more time with your loved one than anyone else. For this reason you will need to be available a good deal of the time while they are transitioning into their living situation. Be available physically and emotionally while your loved one is settling in.

Embrace Your New Role

You may have spent quite some time trying to adjust to the role of caregiver, and now it is time to adjust to a new role again. Embrace your new, less stressful role of friend, family member or spouse. Now you can relax and simply enjoy your relationship with your loved one. Be sure to still visit, plan time for, and engage with your loved one in their new home. You never want your loved one to feel neglected, but also can now enjoy a less stressful relationship.