Every parent wants to win custody dispute, but they need to remember that the most important is the relationship with their child. No matter you can win a proportionate amount of time with your child, you have to be able to build your relationship so the child would not be hurt. So, instead focusing to on amount of time you can win with the child, you need to think how you spend your time with them.
The first thing when you want to win the custody, you should focus on the child's needs. When you attention to the child, you can give them what exactly their needs so you can care them carefully both physically and emotionally. As the result, you and your child can build the quality of relationship, so you can get much time to spend with them.
In the effort to build a quality time with your children, you can consider many activities involve you and your child. You can support them about their school such as taking them to extra-curricular activities, volunteering on school outings or helping them to make their homework. It would be better to negotiate related to the child's activities you are participate instead of the amount of time which the need to care them.
On the other hand, you should to avoid a kind of punishment to other parent by withholding children. You have to realize that limits the time with other parent can lead resentment toward you. Just hold in your mind that the needs of child issue are completely separated with problem between you and your ex. No matter who will win the custody, you and your ex should concern the best for the child at the primary issue of your divorce.
When you are going to mediation, you need to prepare a proposal for custody and time sharing plan. To make the plan clear, you can add the information about school holidays, your job's schedule include the flexibility and business-like attitude and the schedule of your child's activities. Even you and your ex have a serious problem you have to work together to build parenting plan and do not ignore the child's needs together with both parents.
The first thing when you want to win the custody, you should focus on the child's needs. When you attention to the child, you can give them what exactly their needs so you can care them carefully both physically and emotionally. As the result, you and your child can build the quality of relationship, so you can get much time to spend with them.
In the effort to build a quality time with your children, you can consider many activities involve you and your child. You can support them about their school such as taking them to extra-curricular activities, volunteering on school outings or helping them to make their homework. It would be better to negotiate related to the child's activities you are participate instead of the amount of time which the need to care them.
On the other hand, you should to avoid a kind of punishment to other parent by withholding children. You have to realize that limits the time with other parent can lead resentment toward you. Just hold in your mind that the needs of child issue are completely separated with problem between you and your ex. No matter who will win the custody, you and your ex should concern the best for the child at the primary issue of your divorce.
When you are going to mediation, you need to prepare a proposal for custody and time sharing plan. To make the plan clear, you can add the information about school holidays, your job's schedule include the flexibility and business-like attitude and the schedule of your child's activities. Even you and your ex have a serious problem you have to work together to build parenting plan and do not ignore the child's needs together with both parents.
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