You're playing to win
This is the time when you see the relationship as a kind of game that you are trying to win. Oh this is very deadly and definitely a relationship killer. People who are in this kind of relationship are always looking for an advantage or some edge that they can hold over their partner's head. If you feel that there are things that you can't tell your partner because you feel like your partner will use it against you – welcome to competitive relationship. This is not good.
You hold your tongue
There are a lot of people who don't talk about the things that bother or upset them in their relationship and this is really annoying! This is because they don't want to hurt their partner or they want their partners to be mind readers and know exactly what they are feeling without them saying anything. If you are aiming for a long relationship with your partner, then this is a lost cause because it's definitely not going to last LONG with this kind of attitude. What happened to communication, anyway?
You don't listen
The opposite of the one posted above – you talk a lot but you don't listen. Keep in mind that your partner deserves your listening ear and even though your partner did something wrong, he or she deserve to explain and it is your duty to listen to what he or she has to say.
You're afraid to break up
If you were in a happy relationship, you wouldn't be afraid to break up. But if you are, then that is a big warning sign that there is something wrong in the relationship.
You're dependent
Do you find yourself clinging to your partner all the time? As if you can't do something without your partner? There is a thin line between companionship and support and dependency. If you depend on your partner to the extent that you can't live without him or her, you have already crossed that line. In a relationship, it is always great to still be independent. And no one wants a clingy partner – honestly.
You never fight
Oh no! a good argument is very important every now and then. One reason when couples don't fight is because they fear conflict and this kind of fear only reflects a lack of trust. And this is bad. If you two never fight, as in never it is very possible tat you relationship is not going anywhere.
Those are some of the things that can hurt your relationship and knowing these things is very important because you will know the indicators if your relationship is going south or not. Keep in mind that when it comes to relationships, you always have a choice and you can choose to seek out an answer to the things listed above or you can resign yourself to the failure of your relationship. The choice is up to you to make.
This is the time when you see the relationship as a kind of game that you are trying to win. Oh this is very deadly and definitely a relationship killer. People who are in this kind of relationship are always looking for an advantage or some edge that they can hold over their partner's head. If you feel that there are things that you can't tell your partner because you feel like your partner will use it against you – welcome to competitive relationship. This is not good.
You hold your tongue
There are a lot of people who don't talk about the things that bother or upset them in their relationship and this is really annoying! This is because they don't want to hurt their partner or they want their partners to be mind readers and know exactly what they are feeling without them saying anything. If you are aiming for a long relationship with your partner, then this is a lost cause because it's definitely not going to last LONG with this kind of attitude. What happened to communication, anyway?
You don't listen
The opposite of the one posted above – you talk a lot but you don't listen. Keep in mind that your partner deserves your listening ear and even though your partner did something wrong, he or she deserve to explain and it is your duty to listen to what he or she has to say.
You're afraid to break up
If you were in a happy relationship, you wouldn't be afraid to break up. But if you are, then that is a big warning sign that there is something wrong in the relationship.
You're dependent
Do you find yourself clinging to your partner all the time? As if you can't do something without your partner? There is a thin line between companionship and support and dependency. If you depend on your partner to the extent that you can't live without him or her, you have already crossed that line. In a relationship, it is always great to still be independent. And no one wants a clingy partner – honestly.
You never fight
Oh no! a good argument is very important every now and then. One reason when couples don't fight is because they fear conflict and this kind of fear only reflects a lack of trust. And this is bad. If you two never fight, as in never it is very possible tat you relationship is not going anywhere.
Those are some of the things that can hurt your relationship and knowing these things is very important because you will know the indicators if your relationship is going south or not. Keep in mind that when it comes to relationships, you always have a choice and you can choose to seek out an answer to the things listed above or you can resign yourself to the failure of your relationship. The choice is up to you to make.
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