Ultimately, we grasp that Love is the reason for life. We are created from love and so it is understandable that we want to search for another special person to share it with. Until we can accomplish this, we may feel as if we are isolated on the planet and that we really need another person to make us whole.
The path to finding the flawless romantic bond can be an uncertain one, full of dead ends, upsets, agony and even cynicism. And yet, we continue because of the chance of ultimately encountering the perfect person who will make us whole with ecstatic fulfillment. I am here to help you in accelerating that journey.
The largest trap on the path to love is the sense that you are not whole and that someone else can deliver the missing parts that are blocking fulfillment. If you think about it, though, would you be drawn to someone who considered themselves to be "not whole" and who expressed a belief that only YOU could make them whole? If you are not attracting your picture-perfect mate, this is a possible reason why. The happy news is that this certainly can be fixed, once you have the information you will need to grasp this clearly.
Another major phenomenon that trips up most would-be lovers is that they depend only on romantic or sexual chemistry to choose a life partner. They fail to grasp that chemistry lessens after a period of time and if the supporting connection is not founded in common interests and rock-solid friendship, they may be left, ultimately, with not much more than the likelihood of separation. That's why it is so essential to take the time to really understand each other before even thinking about the responsibility of matrimony.
There are many bodily-alluring would-be lovers on the planet who can satisfy you with great sex. It is much more difficult to find is an individual who is an ideal match for your individuality and interests. Such an individual does not have to be at all like you but they must hit it off with you. If they are similar to you, you will both benefit from doing things in concert. If they are unlike you, you will enjoy learning from one another and, although this can be a bit difficult at times, such a connection can be a stimulating and gratifying life-long encounter.
Another snare is our habit of judging our partners by what they DO instead of who they ARE. While you can like or dislike what the other person is doing every now and then, you can only love them for who they ARE. It's often very difficult for people to make this distinction. If you married a person because they were a celebrity or powerful or esteemed by others, you would have married them for what they DO instead of who they are. This will prove, in the years to come, to be simply insufficient. Alternatively, if you married a person because they caused your heart to light up whenever they walked into the room or because they were lighthearted, devoted, caring, remarkable or mischievous, you would be marrying them for whom they ARE and you could almost undoubtedly foresee a long and joyful relationship.
There is, of course, a lot more to this business of discovering the best person with whom to share an enduring and joyful romance. However, we have just considered some of the most significant romantic pitfalls. Now here's the happy news: Once you have the appropriate information, you will start to be a person who will be beguilingly attractive to the opposite sex and it should not be a long time before you come across the love of your life.
The path to finding the flawless romantic bond can be an uncertain one, full of dead ends, upsets, agony and even cynicism. And yet, we continue because of the chance of ultimately encountering the perfect person who will make us whole with ecstatic fulfillment. I am here to help you in accelerating that journey.
The largest trap on the path to love is the sense that you are not whole and that someone else can deliver the missing parts that are blocking fulfillment. If you think about it, though, would you be drawn to someone who considered themselves to be "not whole" and who expressed a belief that only YOU could make them whole? If you are not attracting your picture-perfect mate, this is a possible reason why. The happy news is that this certainly can be fixed, once you have the information you will need to grasp this clearly.
Another major phenomenon that trips up most would-be lovers is that they depend only on romantic or sexual chemistry to choose a life partner. They fail to grasp that chemistry lessens after a period of time and if the supporting connection is not founded in common interests and rock-solid friendship, they may be left, ultimately, with not much more than the likelihood of separation. That's why it is so essential to take the time to really understand each other before even thinking about the responsibility of matrimony.
There are many bodily-alluring would-be lovers on the planet who can satisfy you with great sex. It is much more difficult to find is an individual who is an ideal match for your individuality and interests. Such an individual does not have to be at all like you but they must hit it off with you. If they are similar to you, you will both benefit from doing things in concert. If they are unlike you, you will enjoy learning from one another and, although this can be a bit difficult at times, such a connection can be a stimulating and gratifying life-long encounter.
Another snare is our habit of judging our partners by what they DO instead of who they ARE. While you can like or dislike what the other person is doing every now and then, you can only love them for who they ARE. It's often very difficult for people to make this distinction. If you married a person because they were a celebrity or powerful or esteemed by others, you would have married them for what they DO instead of who they are. This will prove, in the years to come, to be simply insufficient. Alternatively, if you married a person because they caused your heart to light up whenever they walked into the room or because they were lighthearted, devoted, caring, remarkable or mischievous, you would be marrying them for whom they ARE and you could almost undoubtedly foresee a long and joyful relationship.
There is, of course, a lot more to this business of discovering the best person with whom to share an enduring and joyful romance. However, we have just considered some of the most significant romantic pitfalls. Now here's the happy news: Once you have the appropriate information, you will start to be a person who will be beguilingly attractive to the opposite sex and it should not be a long time before you come across the love of your life.
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