Just thinking about it, there are most likely more cons than pros to successfully bedding a virgin.
This however shouldn't hold you back because if that person thinks you're the one then you should do them the favor of being "The one.
" The virgin will most likely want you to take charge and show them the ropes and not expect too much.
The best scenario for two virgins to lose their virginity together but this rarely happens as people want someone who is experienced to take theirs.
CONS The mess - Having sex with a woman for the first time could possibly get messy.
Being the first time she could get hurt and start to bleed all over the bed sheets.
This is a great reason to avoid having sex with a virgin.
You may need to change your bed sheets and mattress protector if this happens.
Skills - Since this will be her/his first time then one thing is for sure, they won't have bugger all experience so most likely it won't be that pleasurable for you.
There are however ways you can practice like having dry sex or starting out with oral prior to the actual act.
Attachment - It's not at all unlikely that a devirginized man or woman will get attached to the person who first beds them.
If you don't want this to happen you should really let them know beforehand and not be rude about it.
Not many women imagine for the first time that they won't ever sleep with the man again.
Chance of them freaking out - There is a chance unless they're really drunk that they may freak out prior to, during or after the act.
They may decide at any time that they want to stop leaving you feeling like crap as if you did something wrong.
This mainly happens when someone puts too much importance on their virginity and wants it to be perfect and they could possibly start crying.
There will surely be a lot of feelings flying about.
The preparation - Plans rarely work out and especially when you try get someone to do it with their clothes off.
You should both really be quite comfortable being around naked together and lying in bed.
Depending on how easy the virgin is you might need to do a lot of dry humping before they build up the confidence of actually having sex.
Social aspect - Depending on the virgin, they will no doubt talk about their first time with their closes friends so you'll want to be good or smooth about it.
Worse comes to worse you could actually fully deny sleeping with them and get away with it if they have no proof.
PROS Social aspect - Most women who hear you've just finished devirginizing someone and were really good in the sack is one of the biggest compliments you can get from any women.
It will give you plenty of rep power in the future with their friends.
Being the one improves morale and self-esteem - Knowing that you had the charm and sex appeal to seduce a virgin is a massive compliment and will surely boost your self-esteem.
This is because a special person (the virgin) trusted you and liked you enough to be that special someone to bed them.
Everyone remembers their first time so make sure you go out of your way to make this one special for them.
CONCLUSION There may very well be more negatives than positives to taking one's virginity.
If you are more than comfortable with going ahead with it then you shouldn't hold back but you must take into account that this should be a special moment.
A woman wouldn't want a man to be rough like he usually is and there should be a connection between the two individuals.
This however shouldn't hold you back because if that person thinks you're the one then you should do them the favor of being "The one.
" The virgin will most likely want you to take charge and show them the ropes and not expect too much.
The best scenario for two virgins to lose their virginity together but this rarely happens as people want someone who is experienced to take theirs.
CONS The mess - Having sex with a woman for the first time could possibly get messy.
Being the first time she could get hurt and start to bleed all over the bed sheets.
This is a great reason to avoid having sex with a virgin.
You may need to change your bed sheets and mattress protector if this happens.
Skills - Since this will be her/his first time then one thing is for sure, they won't have bugger all experience so most likely it won't be that pleasurable for you.
There are however ways you can practice like having dry sex or starting out with oral prior to the actual act.
Attachment - It's not at all unlikely that a devirginized man or woman will get attached to the person who first beds them.
If you don't want this to happen you should really let them know beforehand and not be rude about it.
Not many women imagine for the first time that they won't ever sleep with the man again.
Chance of them freaking out - There is a chance unless they're really drunk that they may freak out prior to, during or after the act.
They may decide at any time that they want to stop leaving you feeling like crap as if you did something wrong.
This mainly happens when someone puts too much importance on their virginity and wants it to be perfect and they could possibly start crying.
There will surely be a lot of feelings flying about.
The preparation - Plans rarely work out and especially when you try get someone to do it with their clothes off.
You should both really be quite comfortable being around naked together and lying in bed.
Depending on how easy the virgin is you might need to do a lot of dry humping before they build up the confidence of actually having sex.
Social aspect - Depending on the virgin, they will no doubt talk about their first time with their closes friends so you'll want to be good or smooth about it.
Worse comes to worse you could actually fully deny sleeping with them and get away with it if they have no proof.
PROS Social aspect - Most women who hear you've just finished devirginizing someone and were really good in the sack is one of the biggest compliments you can get from any women.
It will give you plenty of rep power in the future with their friends.
Being the one improves morale and self-esteem - Knowing that you had the charm and sex appeal to seduce a virgin is a massive compliment and will surely boost your self-esteem.
This is because a special person (the virgin) trusted you and liked you enough to be that special someone to bed them.
Everyone remembers their first time so make sure you go out of your way to make this one special for them.
CONCLUSION There may very well be more negatives than positives to taking one's virginity.
If you are more than comfortable with going ahead with it then you shouldn't hold back but you must take into account that this should be a special moment.
A woman wouldn't want a man to be rough like he usually is and there should be a connection between the two individuals.
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